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licaangel: Its quite sad seeing your relationship change slowly each day. Things start to become...

Sun, 06 Jan 2013 01:47:56 -0500

Its quite sad seeing your relationship change slowly each day. Things start to become different between you two when you least expect it. It seems like you two aren’t as in love with each other as before. And now you question yourself, what happened?

Jealousy.

Sun, 06 Jan 2013 01:41:28 -0500

minddsett:

One of the worst feelings you can ever experience. You think you’re never good enough. You see all these attractive and smart people, and you think to yourself, “Why can’t I be like them?” You go through some sort of phase trying to remake yourself so you can be like them. What sucks is, if you’re in a relationship. You do the most stupidest, crazy shit just to make the jealousy stop. You start assuming and making up all these stupid stuff in your head. Then in the end, you make a complete fool out of yourself.

licaangel: Once you get hurt, fucked over, used, played.. It changes you. You start to build up...

Sun, 06 Jan 2013 01:37:51 -0500

licaangel:

Once you get hurt, fucked over, used, played.. It changes you. You start to build up this huge wall for your self. You do it to protect yourself. You dont want anyone to hurt you again. You begin to keep your feelings inside of it. No one can get past it. You dont trust anyone anymore. You isolate yourself from love. You’re afraid of letting someone back in your life again and bringing your walls down. You think that they will do more damage to you. So you just become distant. You push them away. You do everything possible to help protect yourself from the pain. You just dont what to let everything that hurt you once, do it all over again..

At one point in the relationship,

Sun, 06 Jan 2013 01:35:55 -0500

licaangel:

You may think that there’s nothing else you can do. You begin to doubt yourself and the relationship. You start thinking how it may not be worth it, or how it won’t get better, something along those lines. All of a sudden, you just focus on all the negative stuff. You base all the bad things on the relationship. When what you should actually do is, focus on the wonderful things. Think about all those times we’ve had together, laughing, smiling, just having a good time. Focus on why we’ve been fighting this long, and what has been keeping us together. It’s because we love eachother. Throughout all those tough times, we got passed it because it couldn’t overcome how much we loved and cared for one another. What we have is real, and we’re lucky enough to experience this once in a life time love. You just need to switch your whole mindset on it all..

licaangel: Obsessing over this songgg.

Thu, 13 Dec 2012 01:42:36 -0500

licaangel:

Obsessing over this songgg.

licaangel: charlene-lopez: whatcharwouldsay: Hey, it’s me…...

Sat, 22 Sep 2012 14:54:48 -0400

licaangel:

charlene-lopez:

whatcharwouldsay:

Hey, it’s me… And I don’t know if you’ll get this, but… This telephonic relation with your answering machine is so quick, so obscene and it makes me sick. See, I’ve had with your neglection, so don’t mind this correction when I say that I’m tired of waiting for you every day. Because, hey, a girl’s patience can run across a nation’s masons, roads, freeways, loads of concrete jungle, and even through deep sea ways.

So what am I to you? A business up for sue? A temporary affair your stupid mind couldn’t pull through? ‘Cause you foolin’ me like a joker with sweet nothings and mediocre so successfully, spittin’ antics to lay like a talent listed on yo resume. Baby, your methods make you seem heartless, as if darts can confess of the targets they aim for to avoid loneliess. So what’s your purpose? To call me yours? To open up the doors for manifestations and ovations since the treaty of our heart’s wars?

Shit, I’m nothing to you. I’m done hoping for you. I’m done dreamin’, prayin’, wishin’, so you know what? Adieu.

I’ll save you the trouble, the heartbreaking sin, and give you taste of your own medicine because here: We’re through. Yeah. We. Are. Through. And my dear, I’m glad to say I’m done talking to you.

-A. Reyes

(via labella-deactivated20110215-dea)

licaangel: I’m done. It’s not worth it anymore. You make me feel like shit to you. You don’t know...

Thu, 20 Sep 2012 23:31:34 -0400

licaangel:

I’m done. It’s not worth it anymore.
You make me feel like shit to you. You don’t know what you want, or who you want. It’s quite ridiculous because, if you really did love me, you wouldn’t even be confused with anything. You never loved me, for me..
I’m pathetic and stupid for always letting you back in my life, after everything you’ve done, and for you to tear me down all over again. Maybe i did it because i had so much faith in us, that no matter what, our love would over power anything that came in our way. Unfortunately, It didn’t work out that way.
I don’t like the way i feel when it comes to you being in my life. I don’t even want to have anything to do with you anymore. I don’t even think being friends with you would be right. You’ve emotionally damaged me, and I dont think I can handle being friends with someone who’s done that to me.
You can take back all your stuff. You can have the cow stuffed animal, the shirt you gave me, the picture frame of us, the bracelet, and the memories. Keep it all. I don’t want them with me.

You’ve hurt me. In fact, you’ve hurt me in every way possible.
I may love you. But, you honestly make me regret so much.
I wish that you could’ve been there by my side to work things out, but no.

I hope you find that special girl that you truly do want to end up with.
And when you find her, don’t let her go.
I wish you the best of luck.

What we had, it could have been beautiful.

Sat, 15 Sep 2012 02:42:48 -0400

licaangel: Its quite sad seeing your relationship change slowly each day. Things start to become...

Sun, 02 Sep 2012 12:11:00 -0400

licaangel:

Its quite sad seeing your relationship change slowly each day. Things start to become different between you two when you least expect it. It seems like you two aren’t as in love with each other as before. And now you question yourself, what happened?

Happiness is only temporary.

Sun, 02 Sep 2012 12:08:57 -0400

licaangel:

All the good things in life always goes away.

That typical relationship cycle,

Tue, 21 Aug 2012 13:55:21 -0400

licaangel:

It starts off with finding someone who catches your eye, then that’s when the chase begins. You do whatever it takes to get this person to be yours. You talk to them 24/7, try and see them all the time, and you make them feel special. Good job. Im sure if you chased them the right way, they’re probably yours by now.

Here comes the honeymoon stage. This will probably be your highest peek of the relationship, well atleast for now. You two are probably so infatuated with eachother. You two have fallen head over heels. Nothing can compare to your guys’ happiness right now. You two are overly joyed of being together.

Then, it starts to settle down. I guess you can call this the stage of being comfortable? Idk..
But im sure you two are comfortable to the point where you two can do the most weirdest or grossest things while you’re together. At this point, you two feel so right being together.

Now, we can call this the stage of tolerance (i guess). You two are still together. It’s probably been many months, maybe a year. You guys begin to get into serious fights. Arguing all the time. All you two can do is tolerate eachother. Just letting whatever happen, happen.

Finally, you two have both came down to this stage, i dont even know what to call this stage. But this is where you two begin to doubt. It’s either you two stick it out, or leave. Usually people leave, idk why, but it happens all the time. You two are lucky if you guys decide to stick it out. But you two are getting tired of eachother. It’s the same thing every day. There’s no more excitement. Barely any happy memories in the making. So you both decide and think, is it time to go, or time to stay?

Okay, I WANT TO BREAK THIS FUCKING CYCLE. OMG. ASDFGHJKLL;!!!!!

People dont realize what they have anymore.

Mon, 20 Aug 2012 22:37:29 -0400

At one point in the relationship,

Mon, 20 Aug 2012 20:05:52 -0400

licaangel:

You may think that there’s nothing else you can do. You begin to doubt yourself and the relationship. You start thinking how it may not be worth it, or how it won’t get better, something along those lines. All of a sudden, you just focus on all the negative stuff. You base all the bad things on the relationship. When what you should actually do is, focus on the wonderful things. Think about all those times we’ve had together, laughing, smiling, just having a good time. Focus on why we’ve been fighting this long, and what has been keeping us together. It’s because we love eachother. Throughout all those tough times, we got passed it because it couldn’t overcome how much we loved and cared for one another. What we have is real, and we’re lucky enough to experience this once in a life time love. You just need to switch your whole mindset on it all..

licaangel: This is so relevant.

Thu, 26 Jul 2012 23:34:28 -0400

licaangel:

This is so relevant.

licaangel: All the advice people give these days consist of the same thing over and over again… Get...

Thu, 26 Jul 2012 00:14:31 -0400

licaangel:

All the advice people give these days consist of the same thing over and over again… Get over him/her, its not worth it, just end it already, if you love someone then let them go, you don’t deserve it, and etc. But, have you ever thought of it the other way around? If these two people are truly in love and have lasted quite a long time, maybe all they need to do is stick it out. No relationship is perfect, and its okay to have some arguments along the way and some minor issues. Instead of telling them the cliche advice that’s been said too many times, tell them something else. It is worth it in the end, even though you two are arguing and shit. If you two love each other, just deal with the problems that come along the way. Don’t let go of the person you love, because maybe they might not ever come back again. Maybe they were actually the one for you, and you decided to let them go for some stupid reason. You don’t want to lose that chance at being with the one you’re meant for, right? Make it work, do whatever it takes to keep the person you love. Listen to yourself and what you want, not some person’s advice, because no on really knows you and your relationship, other than yourself.Sometimes its okay to make sure to base the decisions on your needs, not on other people. I’m sure that, if you two love each other enough to fight for the relationship, it will truly be worth it in the end.
I wish i could take my own advice -__-

licaangel: You need to learn how to accept any situation that comes along in life. Whether It’s a...

Thu, 26 Jul 2012 00:11:41 -0400

licaangel:

You need to learn how to accept any situation that comes along in life.
Whether It’s a bad or good one. Just change your whole mindset on everything.
Learn how to deal with stuff with a mature and effective way.
You can’t keep dwelling on the past, or hoping things will fix themselves.
It’s either you move on from what has happened, and be happy.
Or keep sticking with your past, which is only going to be hurting you.
Face the facts. You will not be able to get anywhere if you keep dwelling on past shit.
Just be strong, and carry on.

I need someone new in my life.

Tue, 17 Jul 2012 17:46:09 -0400

Someone to give me some excitement.
I need that.

I miss those summer flings.

Tue, 17 Jul 2012 17:31:02 -0400

licaangel:

Having and/or gaining all those feelings for someone new. All those butterflies stirring in your stomach. Getting to know someone and being all smiles and laughs. Nothing to worry about because its summer. Which makes things even more better with summer flings. I just miss those type of stuff.

licaangel: Its quite sad seeing your relationship change slowly each day. Things start to become...

Fri, 13 Jul 2012 22:46:48 -0400

licaangel:

Its quite sad seeing your relationship change slowly each day. Things start to become different between you two when you least expect it. It seems like you two aren’t as in love with each other as before. And now you question yourself, what happened?

licaangel: Once you get hurt, fucked over, used, played.. It changes you. You start to build up...

Tue, 10 Jul 2012 15:57:02 -0400

licaangel:

Once you get hurt, fucked over, used, played.. It changes you. You start to build up this huge wall for your self. You do it to protect yourself. You dont want anyone to hurt you again. You begin to keep your feelings inside of it. No one can get past it. You dont trust anyone anymore. You isolate yourself from love. You’re afraid of letting someone back in your life again and bringing your walls down. You think that they will do more damage to you. So you just become distant. You push them away. You do everything possible to help protect yourself from the pain. You just dont what to let everything that hurt you once, do it all over again..